I noticed that at some point in life, when you're walking this learning path too long, there will be this sense of "loneliness" that comes in your way. And when there's this special someone who managed to knocked onto your heart's doorstep, loneliness will try and trick you on thinking:"SHE IS THE ONE!"
The one for what? The one that solves all your problems! She will be the one that fills that loneliness inside you; she will be one you need whenever you're sad, angry, disappointed and etc. Upon meeting her, you will solve your heart's problem and you two will live happily ever after! Well, that is at least what the society wants us to think, right? In today's world, when most of our desires are fulfilled by external materials, we are always on the look out for that special "someone". We will always trick ourselves by believing that if we have that particular "someone", my problems will all be solved. But is that true?
The heart is always on the look out to find "someone" to accept, understand and even love us. But the question is, do we even understand ourselves?
See, in some point in life, we feel tired. Tired (or for some people is feeling fearful) because we have to face and solve our problems. The time and energy that takes to do this is taxing and at some point we just couldn't continue. And if there's just "someone" that could just solve our problems for us, wouldn't it be nice? I gotta admit, it is wonderful. However, that's not how life works. In life, problems are the issues that we have to go through in order to grow, to be better, and more importantly, to be happy. And even that means to do it ALONE. Yep, facing life problems is something we have to do by ourselves, only us have the choice and power to change it. And perhaps that "someone" like your lover, friends or families can't solve it for you, but at least, you will know that they are always there for you, to encourage, to accompany you along the way.
